Wednesday, March 07, 2007

~Be lenient toward glass vessels…~



Advice for husbands… and single brothers who going to marry ….

Be lenient toward the glass vessels…
Treat her softly with tenderness..
Else she easy to get scratch,
Then develop to be a crack…
A small shock it will be broken to pieces…
She was created from your ribs…
Her bend need your soft hands to make her straight without break….

Treat her kindly……
Speak to her nicely…
She tend to be very sensitive
Want to be loved completely …
Want you understand her soul clearly
She wants to be like the hoor of jannah
Her life so easy to turn dark when you upset..
She can’t close her eyes before see you please…
When you have a headache,
Impossible for her to sleep
Until after you fell asleep
Willing to sacrifice everything for you comfort

Her happiness vanishes when you disappear….
She cries out in desperation when you silent.
Shivers in fear that she might trouble you
Hoping your smiles like waiting for the sun after the could…
For love means like to share…
The trust to talk and solve thing together…

Sometimes
She tend to be possessive
She loves you all out in totality…
She feels gives too much but no return
Feeling loving you sometimes like keep water in her hands…
As far as she opens her hands it will remain there
But when she close her hand to posses it..
It will split out just with the first crack..

Please treasure what she given
Never lost its preciousness…

Sometimes she feels like in the barren land…
Love with no return….
In the confusion with aching heart
Feeling like building a castle from fragile sandS…
She has much to say but there is not way…
Unable to understand you

She cries for the soul to feel as she feels,
To love her as she loves you,

It is destiny who brings your together eternally.
She is the gift from Allah in your life
As a Marriage is a compromise
You choose her among other woman
Even the first that your might the best one you see
You have to learn to live a happy life with it
Try your best for its success

Look through her eyes…
For you see her love so deep
Her feeling like the ocean of flow
Keep growing with no end…

She wishes you be a romantic bird
Sings her lovely songs

She needs your true sympathy when she in trouble.
She needs to feel being care…
She needs your love…
There no source that she expects but from her dear husband…

Talk to her
Even that small things..
Makes her feeling trusted and needed…
Show interest to whatever she does..
Give attention to what she say….
Don’t let her cries out in desperation hoping you will hear

She needs you express your love…
She is your helpmates,
The mother of your children..
The one who comfort your home..
The companion who fulfills your love desires…
Your other half
The queen of your heart….

Let her see your love,
Show your great need of her.

It difficult to express…
As man hard to be gentle
But it what she is seeking …
Put aside your ego and pride...
Don’t make her lose in hope…
Her happiness will make her doing her duties in content…

Love is the most beautiful thing to happen
Never bored to say
You love her everyday …
Don’t let the time fade it…
Don’t wait to realize its worth when it’s gone

Drop her a romantic messages
Even in your busy times..
Make her glow you remember her
Make her feel she the first and important…

Build a house full light and happiness…
With love and harmony….

No matter what happen,
Keep her as your dear …
A half that always bring the light
The blossom of your soul
Give you the wings that help you to fly

She always wants to be shinning star
Keep her glistening so bright..


Rytha
Batam 6 March 2007

"Allah says: “He created for you mates from among yourselves so that you can seek comfort in them and He has placed between you affection and mercy.” [Sûrah al-Rûm: 21]

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